We ( women ) are special

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful]     
[Praise be to Allah, the Cherisher and Sustainer of the worlds]
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
As-SalamuAlaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakaatuhu

A Woman Mother Sister Wife
"When Almighty Allah made the woman she had to be made so special. He ,Subhana wa Taala made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And lastly, He, Subhana Wa Taala gave her a tear. This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."

"You see my brothers and son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides

By Mohammed Arshad Dehlvi

3 Ways

Stress and a Glass of Water

A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience,

raised a glass of water and asked,

"How heavy is this glass of water?"

Answers called out ranged from 20g. to 500g.

The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter.

It depends on how long you try to hold it.

If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem.

If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm.

If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance.

In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."

He continued,

"And that's the way it is with stress management.

If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later,

as the burden becomes increasingly heavy,

we won't be able to carry on. "

"As with the glass of water,

you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again.

When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden."

"So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down.

Don't carry it home.

You can pick it up tomorrow.

Whatever burdens you're carrying now,

So, my friend, put down anything that may be a burden to you right now.

Don't pick it up again until after you've rested a while.

ES KRIM GORENG (Fried Ice Cream)

Let we talk about fried ice cream, first time when i heard about this ice cream i didn't believe it if it was exist ....:D
how come ice cream can be fried . then the opportunity came to me,to see n to eat it....i think about 3 weeks ago my Korean friends invited me to have fried ice cream in one of cafes in my city.see how it looks like .......

it looks like a ball bread

see what i found in the inside !!!! its ice cream :D

friend ice cream n me ;)

I LIKE IT .... =)

Having Fun with my friends

Yesterday,  i went to my university to meet my friends after 2 month we didn't see each other.we met for discussing  our final assignment that will be as our mark for this semester . after that we had lunch together at Solaria .my fav place for eating because the menus is various n  not quite expensive ,then they have big portion for one person n the taste is so delicious.... =)

at Solaria ;)

Let see what stuff that i bought from the sweet fruit

1. finally i could buy a hand bag  that i can use it in formal or informal occasion.my sweet friend "may chan" help me to find it in the treasure island ...hhhhhh :D

2. see this cute pin " my strawberry "

3. cant control my self  to have this one :P

5. Sunglasses to protect my magic eyes :P

So Happy

I m so happy ......

I just got my first salary from my university two days ago . its lots for my self...hhhh

.Thanks God because the salary is bigger than my previous job . so i can try again to save half of my money at the bank and half of that i  gave to my mom.  this is  a present for my mom . because  at the same time That day was mothers' day . and she looks very happy.

mom i know even i give u what i have it will be never be enough  , coz  ur love is the biggest thing in my life that cant be change with everything.  from the bottom of my heart  this is small thing that i can do to make u happy. mom i love u so much. pray for me that i can be a grown woman n i have a good carrier n soon i can introduce u with my prince .Amiin :)

This song is for u mom

Kasih ibu kepada beta

( mom , ur love for me )

tak terhingga sepanjang masa

(there is no limit until the end of time )

hanya memberi tak harap kembali

(u only give but never expect it back )

bagai sang surya menyinari dunia 

(its just like the sun which shines this world)

Katy Perry - Firework

Kim Jong Kook - Saying You Love me

Hangul Lyric "Saying I love U"

사랑한다는 말 나 하나란 말

내가 전부란 말 기억 못하면 좋겠어

눈부신 날들이 행복한 추억이 항상 아프게 해

똑같은 이름도 닮은 얼굴도 닮은 목소리도 다신 없으면 좋겠어

생각나서 너무 그리워서 울지 않도록

사랑한단 말을 들어야 잔다며 어린애처럼 조르던 널

가끔 나의 등이 슬퍼 보인다며 한참 안아주던 널

아파도 내가 보면 속상해 할까 봐 한쪽 눈으로 울었던 널

그렇게 한없이 착한 널 내가 정말 잊을 수가 있을까

사랑한다는 말 나 하나란 말

내가 전부란 말 기억 못하면 좋겠어

눈부신 날들이 행복한 추억이 항상 아프게 해

똑같은 이름도 닮은 얼굴도 닮은 목소리도 다신 없으면 좋겠어

생각나서 너무 그리워서 울지 않도록

쉬운 거짓말도 한번을 못했던 바보스러운 너였지만

더는 사랑하지 않는단 그 말만은 정말 거짓말 같아

사랑한다는 말 나 하나란 말

내가 전부란 말 기억 못하면 좋겠어

눈부신 날들이 행복한 추억이 항상 아프게 해

똑같은 이름도 닮은 얼굴도 닮은 목소리도 다신 없으면 좋겠어

생각나서 너무 그리워서 울지 않도록

너 아니면 누구도 싫어서 내 두 눈에 담지 못해서

이렇게 또 눈물 흐르잖아

사랑하는 사람 하나 뿐인데 오직 너 뿐인데

똑같은 이름만 닮은 얼굴만 닮은 목소리만 찾아 헤매는 나인걸

보고 싶어 너무 듣고 싶어 너 하나만을

Romaji "Saying I Love You"

saranghandaneun mal na hanaran mal
naega jeonburan mal gieok motamyeon jokesseo
nunbusin naldeuri haengbokhan chueogi hangsang apeuge hae
ttokgateun ireumdo darmeun eolguldo darmeun moksorido dasin eobseumyeon jokesseo
saenggangnaseo neomu geuriwoseo ulji antorok

saranghandan mareul deureoya jandamyeo eorinaecheoreom joreudeon neol
gakkeum naui deungi seulpeo boindamyeo hancham anajudeon neol
apado naega bomyeon soksanghae halkka bwa hanjjok nuneuro ureotdeon neol
geureoke haneobsi chakhan neol naega jeongmal ijeul suga isseulkka

saranghandaneun mal na hanaran mal
naega jeonburan mal gieok motamyeon jokesseo
nunbusin naldeuri haengbokhan chueogi hangsang apeuge hae
ttokgateun ireumdo darmeun eolguldo darmeun moksorido dasin eobseumyeon jokesseo
saenggangnaseo neomu geuriwoseo ulji antorok

swiun geojitmaldo hanbeoneul motaetdeon baboseureoun neoyeotjiman
deoneun saranghaji annneundan geu malmaneun jeongmal geojitmal gata

saranghandaneun mal na hanaran mal
naega jeonburan mal gieok motamyeon jokesseo
nunbusin naldeuri haengbokhan chueogi hangsang apeuge hae
ttokgateun ireumdo darmeun eolguldo darmeun moksorido dasin eobseumyeon jokesseo
saenggangnaseo neomu geuriwoseo ulji antorok

neo animyeon nugudo sirheoseo nae du nune damji motaeseo
ireoke tto nunmul heureujanha

saranghaneun saram hana ppuninde ojik neo ppuninde
ttokgateun ireumman darmeun eolgulman darmeun moksoriman chaja hemaeneun naingeol
bogo sipeo neomu deutgo sipeo neo hanamaneur

credit by jpopasia.com

Jang Geun Suk | Magic Drag (ft. SISTAR's Hyo Lyn) [HQ:MV] (ENG SUB)

Super Junior (SUJU)

1.Super Junior - No Other [english subs + romanization + hangul]


2. Super Junior - Bonamana MV [english subs + romanization + hangul]


3.[ENG + ROM + KOR] Super Girl - Super Junior M (kpopsubs)


4. Super Junior - Sorry Sorry MV [english subs + romanization + kor lyrics]


5. Super Junior-It's You[eng subs+romanji+hangul].flv


6.Seoul Song - Girls Generation (SNSD) & Super Junior Official Music Video with lyrics


7. 슈퍼주니어-M(SuperJunior-M)_U_뮤직비디오(MusicVideo)


8. Super Junior(슈퍼주니어)_행복(Happiness)[HD]

Supernova - On the Days I Missed You [english subs + romanization + hangul]

TRAX - Oh My Goddess [english subs + romanization + hangul]

SHINee

1.SHINee - Hello [Hangul + Romanization + Eng Sub] MV


2.SHINee - LUCIFER MV [english subs + romanization + hangul]


3.SHINee - Ring Ding Dong MV + [Eng Sub, Romanization, Hangul]


4.SHINee - Nuna is so pretty (Replay) [english subs + romanization + hangul]

SM The Ballad - Missing You [english subs + romanization + hangul]

KARA

1.KARA - Jumping MV [english subs + romanization + hangul]


2.[Eng/Rom] Kara Lupin MV HD


3.KARA - Wanna MV (English Sub)


4.Honey- Kara MV

Oh Won Bin (feat Miryo) - I love you and I love you MV [english subs + r...

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Letting Go

 

 

“How one generation loves, the next generation learns.”

Follow the journey of a young boy of a three-generation household, as he sees first hand the importance of respecting, honouring, and loving his parents, through the best and the worst of times

A Girl's Hope

two thumbs up for this girl n for her best mom

U can If U Believe

everyone who visit my blog u have to watch this best inspiring video
n u will learn something from this
never stop dreaming.but dreaming only is not enough .u should take action and believe it that u can make it come true
nothing is impossible
keep fighting!!!!!!!

You see things; and you say, ‘Why?’ But I dream things that never were; and I say, “Why not?”  George Bernard Shaw

Life Isn’t Always Easy

 

Life can be unfair at times
When you must maintain Faith
And Never Let Go.

It is especially during the difficult times
That you must live your life
To its fullest potential.
Those are the times to Triumph
Over circumstances
With Hope and Courage.

Life isn’t always easy,
But if you keep Going and Persevere
To the very best of your Ability,
You will gain Strength to manage
The new Challenges ahead.

Each Goal that you reach
Is another important Step Forward.

Believe that there are
Bright and wonderful days
Ahead for you and you will find them.

                                                                             - Mary A. Rothman

Someday....

I m sure that i m gonna be ok

I m sure after rain it will be rainbow

I m sure even its hard decision for now.it will make my heart free

Everything that's happens in my life,God  has His own reason n beautiful Planning for me

So, the only think that i need now is time n gratitude for everything that happens in my life

Dong Bang Shin Ki

The First Korean boys band that i know. its recommended by one of my friends. she is big fans of them. when i know them the first song that i keep listening is Japanese MV i though they are Japanese but then my friend said to me that they arent .Dong Bang Shin Ki (DBSK) is famous first in Korea and then became known worldwide, but they get a lot more popular with their Japanese audience.

Changmin :)

This boy band is so famous in korea, n they also have huge fans from Southeast Asia .This member includes 5 persons, they are u-know, hero, xiah, younho, and chagmin. among them , i like changmin alots. he is so cute..... :D. when he start becoming singer he was high school student. he was clever student in his school even he had tight schedule of his song project.Proud of Him :)

Best of their MV

1. Sky ( Japanese MV)
First MV that make me fall in love with this boys band :D



2. Hug ( Korean MV)
their first korean singel that i used to listen



3.Purple Line



4. My Destiny



5."O"



6. Lovin' You



7.Miss You



8.どうして君を好きになってしまったんだろう (why did i fall in love with u)



9.Picture of You



10. MIROTIC-주문



11.東方神起 / Summer Dream



12. 東方神起 / Step by Step



13. Bolero



14.hahaha song - classroom version
The students are so lucky :D

Best of Arabic MV ( My Version :D)

1.entah eih (Nancy ajram)
This is the first Arabic song that i like




2.Ehsas Gedid / نانسى عجرم - إحساس جديد (nancy ajram)
still from same singer.actually i m big fans of nancy ajram all her song are so amazing n touchy.she has lovely voice too.
This song has lots of memory in me. the sweet memory that always be apart of me



3.Ya rab (Marwan khouri & karol samaha)
I love this duet lots



4.akhdny ma3ak (fadel shaker and yara )
its recommended by one of my best friends, (Gini). and its lovely MV



5.Ayam El Shety / ميريام فارس - أيام الشتى (Myriam Fares)
in my view,this is one of best song of myriam.i guess its sad mv.i havent got the eng sub yet :(. i m really carious with this lyric.anyone of u can translate this song for me plz....



6. Fi Hagat / في حاجات (Nancy Ajram)
i can feel it, u have something to say but its hard to say
Nancy do great job in her MV.Her acting is natural . love her =)



7."Bahebak"(Jannat)
beautiful song .when u fall in love u cant describe how ur feeling is :P



8. أنا دنيته(Jannat)
I like this :)



9.Enkatabli Omr (Shereine Abdelwahab)
Its so lovely n romantic MV :D.I m gonna sing this song for my husband :P or it will become my wedding sound background...hhhhh



10. Albi Nadak (Amal Hijazi)
This song is full of meaning

Busy Month

Its gonna be busy this month. I have so many assignments that i have to finish in order i can  fulfill my mark for this semester. I work hard for them.

Just to remind:

• Sociolinguistics  

• Translation 

• English language learning strategy

• Discourse Analysis 

• Authentic assessment for language learners 

Besides that, i m going to follow civil servant test this month.

I don't put big expectation to get it but  i will  give my best 

So,Keep Fighting n Keep Smiling :) 

I know ,I can!!!!!! 

Tired

I m tired because of u

One Day, Three Autumns .....

Pediatric Clinic

While waiting my second brother's medicine at clinic. i kill my time by writing this blog.

i have been here since 7 pm.its crowded here tonight. the pediatrician here is so famous, that's why many people keep coming .

My brother has done routine check up here since he was the fifth level in elementary school.He has epilepsy until now we still don't know why it can be happen coz we don't have any historical family who has this before. many doctors don't know about this even we ask them but there is no exactly answer.

When i finished my bachelor degree. Accompany my little bro to come here become one of my responsibility since i can drive a car.He is now third level in senior highs school . i love him very much. if i could ,i preferred to change his position but i know that i will not be strong as my little brother is. may be i would not brave enough to go to school n made friends.But not with him even he is stubborn sometime ,he is never give up to finish his school and through his life without burden of his sickness. even though he complains for few things like this evening he told me that he didn't want stay longer here coz all people are staring at him .since all the patients here are kids .thats normal i said to him.think positively may be u look handsome ;) then he said to me u didn't know the feeling being different.Suddenly, my tears.......

if i could i wanted to cry at the time , but i haven't to do it then i said to him Be Patient Ok after that he was silent

this time dr increased his doses coz last month he was not feeling well n also  he wanna follow the final exam so dr also gave him some vitamin prescription. He usually has same prescription every months but sometime different in doses depend on his condition  . this is the prescription for this month

Carbamazepin  tab 90
                          53dd tab 1
Luminal            100 g no 60
                          52ddcp 1
Calnic                pts no 1/52dd cts 11/2
         

He has to consume medicine three times everyday.so the clinic always gives us medicine for one month 

God please protect and keep him where ever he is . Hope he always be strong ....amin

Finally ,it's my turn to take medicine
Bye everyone  ^_^

Happy Islamic New Year ^_^

During the new year 

No matter how busy our days may be

Hope we always remember

All of the peace, the comfort, and the wonderful love

That comes from Allah

May Peace n Blessing of Almighty Allah be with Us This Year n Always

Happy Islamic New Year 1 MUHARRAM 1432 H

The Greatest Advice

Don't date because you are desperate.

Don't marry because you are miserable.

Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior.

Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.

Don't associate with people you can't trust.

Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend.

Don't dictate because you are smarter.

Don't demand because you are stronger.

Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough & know better.

Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.

Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.

Don't stagnate!

Don't regress.

Don't live in the past. Time can't bring anything or anyone back.

Don't put your life on hold for possibly Mr. Right.

Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr. Wrong because your biological clock is ticking.

Learn a new skill.

Find a new friend.

Start a new career.

Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid for some of life's more hasty decisions.

To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.

To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.

To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.

Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.

To make yourself happy, pursue your passions & be the best of what you can be.

Simplify your life. Take away the clutter.

Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous liaisons.

Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.

Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.

Be true to yourself.

Don't commit when you are not ready.

Don't keep others waiting needlessly.

Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.

Say those words. Don't let the moment pass.

Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.

Write poetry.

Love Deeply.

Walk barefoot.

Dance with wild abandon.

Cry at the movies.

Take care of yourself. Don't wait for someone to take care of you.

You light up your life.

You drive yourself to your destination.

No one completes you - except YOU.

It isn't true that life does not get easier with age.

It only gets more challenging.

Don't be afraid. Don't lose your capacity to love.

Pursue your passions.

Live your dreams.

Don't lose faith in God.

Don't grow old. Just grow YOU!

When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back.

Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to someone is your time.

Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.

God is good all the time!

 "Unknown"

Love Letter

What I Want 

“Good morning my love!

I don’t think I could ever describe the way I really feel about you. I am so blessed for being the one you chose to be with and it’s a privilege to love you and to take care of you. You know that your name means ‘Gift from God’ and it really is true because that’s what you are for me.

I want to be by your side forever, to lay with you and hear you breathing, watching you sleep. You’re so gorgeous! I never get tired of looking at you. Your beauty mesmerizes me. And our children are gonna be so beautiful because they’ll have you as their mother :)

I love you so much. I want to marry you, to share my whole life with you, to wake up every day and see the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. My best friend, my girlfriend and my future wife. You’re the only one that I picture myself with in the future.

I was wondering about our future the other day, and I imagined we holding our baby through the night, trying to make him sleep. You were singing for him. And I realized that, that’s what I want, that’s what I really want with all that’s within me.

Thank you for being so caring, loving and patient.

Thank you for being my partner in crime :)

I love you."


This is an email I got from my boyfriend this morning, and I wanted to share it with the world because I want them to know that true love really exists, it's not just something made up from movies and novels. It's real and it happens.

Giuliana

I read it from one of  blogs that recently i keep reading .
its so wonderful letter.he loves her much
lets see will i get same letter too... :P
Love love love....
it has thousand meanings  that sometime its hard to describe in words n sometime difficult to show in actions
Everyone has their own love stories n their own ways to express it ...

Sorry

It 's Horrible...
I forget my teaching schedule tonight...:(
i used to not have any schedule on Sunday night so i keep in my mind that i didn't have it
i just realize that i have one on Sunday night

After having my dinner i just spent all day in from of my pinky n i don't give so much attention to my cellphone then when i checked i have got 16 miscall  from my coworker  n now its almost 11 pm

Huff I m Really sorry... T_T

Sweet Gift

In 2008, my Korean teacher had a guest from Korea. so she introduced him to me. otherwise i can practice my korean language with him. at the time he just graduated from senior high school as a present from his parents he got ticket to travel to Pekanbaru ,Indonesia. he is really nice ,cute,friendly n clever boy. He calls me "Noona"..:D coz he is younger than me.

He spend 3 days with me for going around Pekanbaru. we chatted lots of things. he even sang for me. one day he said to me that its snowing in Seoul then i said i never see snow in my life except from TV :D...

One month after he left my city  he sent me one pic. n It s so sweet.he sent snow picture which is my name on it .He said in his email that "Lia noona u said u never seen snow so i took snow picture for u  coz  its still snowing here .this pic with ur name on it ,seems u r here ^_^ "

정말 내 동생 고마워
난 지금 매우 바쁜 거 알아
원하는 최선
내가 많이보고

Lia noona :)

I've Blog =)

 Finally I have my own  blog now. i m really excited =)

Now , if i have leisure time, I will spent my time to write my blog :D

I write my blog  in English .Even its not perfect writing .hope i can improve it day by day.

Keep Writing.....!!!!!! 

 Dr David M Burns : Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life

대한민국(South Korea)

Korea is my dream country.Its a country in East Asia, located on the southern portion of Korean Peninsula. It is neighbored by the People's Republic of China to the west, Japan to the east, and North Korea to the north. Its capital is Seoul. South Korea lies in a temperate climate region with a predominantly mountainous terrain.

I love Korean since i started watching Korean dramas. at the time the Korean dramas were so famous in Indonesia. i watched full house. i fell in love with Ji-eun character .stubborn,cute, lovable n never give up to reach her dream.not only with dramas but i also start loving the language and culture.


Thanks to God , He gave me opportunity to have Korean friends who stay in pekanbaru so i learn Korean language from them that y now i can read n write...:) i also have known their food n hows it taste like Kim chi ,Korean cant life without Kim chi when they wanna eat ,Kim chi should be on the table but when i tried it even my first or second or third  the taste still weird in my tongue....hhhhh then after few months i met a very craziest person who love Korean music since i was with her she showed me all her videos that she has and it influenced me since that time honestly saying i m a big fans of Korean  now.... 

Wanna go there soon..hhhh but have to get my master degree then need to collect money before my flight on 2012 ....Hope God willing 

Learning from the mother duck

3 months ago, i saw my duck standing near to the ditch when i wanted to dry my clothes outside in the morning.first i though she wanted to find food then i just passed her.after four hours ,rain was coming down,then i went out quickly to take my clothes then i still found her standing near to the ditch , it made me wondering what she was waiting or looking for then i got close , n suddenly my tears came down i saw her child in the ditch ,n its dying . i guess the ducking fell down into the ditch n couldn't get out from there. see this picture 

When i saw this , i felt so pity how come an animal like them can have strong feeling like this.even its raining she still kept watching her child without moving her self. she was standing  there almost 7 hours  How big is her love . people should learn from the mother duck about loving coz nowadays so many moms in this world throw their babies, sells the babies or even killing them without feeling guilty n at the same time they have brain to think n not same stories with the animal but how she has good heart than human . we have to think about this  .....

Learning is long life process.Everyday is learning .Learning is not only something that u only can get from the formal education but u also can learn it from situation and people surrounding  u or from something that u never take attention on it before