Happiness is Everywhere


Yes, that's right.Happiness is every where.it can come from every direction
but how does it happen ???
the answer is being grateful for every things when everything that u want in ur life is not like ur expectation  and try to open ur heart to see another happiness which come in different appearance



An Amazing Pencil and Eraser Touching Story


Pencil: I’m sorry

Eraser: For what?You didn’t do anything wrong

Pencil:   I’m sorry because you get hurt because of me.Whenever I made a mistake, you’re always there to erase it.But as you make my mistakes vanish,you lose a part of yourself.You get smaller and smaller each time

Eraser: That’s true.But I don’t really mind.You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong.Even though one day, I know I’ll be gone and you’ll replace me with a new one,I’m actually happy with my job.So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :)
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I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil.They’re always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way… they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on).Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.
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“All my life, I’ve been the pencil..
And it pains me to see the eraser
that is my parents getting
smaller and smaller each day.
For I know that one day,
all that I’m left with would be
eraser shavings and memories
of what I used to have…”



from : mylifemyadventuretumblr.com

Random Facts About Me =)

1. I can drive a car but i cant ride motorcycle hhhhhhhhh.....:P
Actually , i could ride motorcycle for two days when i was the third grade in junior high school before but coz of accident i don't want to learn it n ride it again .For us Indonesian cant ride motorcycle is  aweird thing coz mostly Indonesian from kids about 10 years old to up can do it  but not me :(

2. Bakso(Meat Ball)  is my favorite food












3. I love Milo ( its a kind of chocolate milk)
i have been a loyal consumer with this product since i was kindergarten kid n until now i still drink it  every day :D


4. The Only Chocolate that i like is Milo chocolate Bar.....;. if u give me ten or more than that  , i will be so      happy guys :D

5. I do love Mickey mouse n Minni mouse icon on everything . i have this icon on my bag, hijab pin, book,  pens, watch n my purse.



6. I cant see my hand nerve .when i see it , the first thing pops up on my mind is blood n knife arrrgghhhhhhh

7.I can sing Hindi n Korean well  than western song lol

8. I m a dreamer 

9. My first expensive thing that i have ever bought in my life is my pinky laptop . n i m not be able stay far from it  :)

10.  I don't like white milk
 i have tried to drink it but it came out again wekkkkkkk :(

11. u know what guys, long time ago i didn't really like tomato sauce . i preferred chili sauce to tomato sauce .if there was a meal n half of it mix with tomato sauce n i would throw it away. but what happen now, it s my fav sauce when i eat friend chicken hhhh. n the cycle is changing. i prefer tomato sauce to chili sauce . its weird though but its fact ;)

    My Trip to West Sumatra

    Assalamualaikum, ^_^

    Long time no see u guys, OK this time i m going to tell u about my trip last two weeks to West Sumatra as well as attended seminar n met my lecture to consult about my proposal title . why i have to go there ? Because my university cooperate with Padang(the capital city of West Sumatra) university . my university doesn’t have enough professor for teaching us that why we need  some prof from Padang university. So we study at my town and prof come from Padang for teaching us but if there is any proposal seminar or thesis seminar I have to go to west Sumatra. It takes 7 hours from Pekanbaru. West Sumatra is very famous with tourism .it has many beaches,  tea field, rice field n mountains. .This is some pictures that i took from West Sumatra  :

    we stayed at my friend house in Payakumbuh.Payakumbuh is one of the regions in west sumatra n we need 3 hours to reach padan where our university located
    any place always taking pic....:D. this is in the hospital when we saw our prof. he was sick at the time

    Jambak beach

    I wonder u r here.who ????? ;) :P

    can u guess where is it? :D
    at rumah makan padang

    this is in the kitchen .  i was trying to make Bika (traditional cake)
    honestly, even i was smiling, its so hot there ;)

    Eating sate
    Buying oleh2(souvenir) . this shop is so famous among people outside west sumatra province
    the second day in payakumbuh. i was using dian pelangi hijab style :P
    with my sweet n close little sis , mayda
    in the rice field

    do i look a model ??? :D

    taking the chili
    My lovely friends n classmates

    seeing the process how to make rice
    Harau (its have many waterfalls n surrounded by rocks). u have to visit this tourism place if u go to payakumbuh
    my friend, sister ida . guys see the background, yes that is waterfall the water is not much coz it s not rain season
    togetherness is one of the most beautiful gift from ALLAH

    at harau waterfall
    Guys, actually  there are so many interesting places  in west Sumatra but i didn't have much time to visit them all coz the location it s far for some places. n because of our first intention was only attending seminar n consult so if it s run well n we have enough time to look around so we will try to visit the tourism place in west sumatra. so pray for me that everything is good with my thesis so i have enough time to visit another place there .hope next trip i can visit Bukit Tinggi. :)

    Cant wait to watch these animation movies soon =)



    1. Rapunzel



    2.Gnomeo and Juliet



    3.Kung Fu Panda 2


    4.Open Season 3

    『Cruel Temptation』 I Can't Forgive 용서 못해 -with Eng Subs & Romanji




    Lyric n Translation

    왜 너는 나를 만나서 왜 나를 아프게만 해
    내 모든 걸 다 주는데 왜 날 울리니
    니가 나를 상처 준 만큼 다시 돌려줄 거야
    나쁜 여자라고 하지마
    용서 못해

    잔인한 인연은 사랑 같아
    길이 아닌데 가다가 멈출 수는 없어
    사랑 끝에 후회가 찾아오면
    비로소 남는 건 미움뿐

    사랑해달란 애원은 안 해
    마음이 떠난 차디찬 눈빛이 싫어서
    그 마음이 끌리는 그 곳엔
    또 다른 유혹 있을 테니

    사랑이 뭔데 숨죽여 가며
    변해가는 널 잡고 싶었을까

    왜 너는 나를 만나서 왜 나를 아프게만 해
    내 모든 걸 다 주는데 왜 날 울리니
    나 너를 용서해야만 다시 웃을 수 있나
    나쁜 여자라고 하지마
    용서 못해

    사랑이 뭔데 숨죽여 가며
    변해가는 널 잡고 싶었을까

    왜 너는 내가 아닌지 왜 넌 내가 싫은 건지
    내 모든 걸 다 주는데 왜 날 울리니
    니가 나를 상처 준 만큼 다시 돌려줄 거야
    나쁜 여자라고 하지마
    용서 못해

    우- — —
    내 모든 걸 다 주는데 왜 날 울리니
    니가 나를 상처 준 만큼 다시 돌려줄 거야
    나쁜 여자라고 하지마
    용서 못해

    사랑이 너무 아파

    Cr: jpopasia.com

    My translation : {this is just a rough translation! not 100% accurate~but the idea is there}

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    Why must i meet you,why did you hurt me
    I gave you my everything,why did you make me cry
    I’ll give you back the same amount of hurt that you gave me
    Do not call me a bad woman
    I can’t forgive

    The cruel bond of love
    I cannot stop its not the way [T/N: i'll try to find the closer meaning :\]
    Regret that comes at the end of love
    Finally leaves,but not hatred

    You don’t have to beg to love to me
    I did not mind leaving the cold, dark eyes
    The place that attracted my mind
    I’ll be another temptation

    This type of suffocating love
    I want to take revenge[T/N: the translated meaning isn't really revenge,but i seriously dont know how to phrase this sentence :\]

    Why must i meet you,why did you hurt me
    I gave you my everything,why did you make me cry
    I’ve forgiven you, are you able to laugh again/I can laugh again [T/N: will check]
    Do not call me a bad woman
    I can’t forgive

    This type of suffocating love
    I want to take revenge [T/N: the translated meaning isn't really revenge,but i seriously dont know how to phrase this sentence :\]

    Why is it me, not you? Why don’t you know that i’m not going?
    I gave you my everything,why did you make me cry
    I’ll give you back the same amount of hurt that you gave me
    Do not call me a bad woman
    I can’t forgive

    Woo- — —
    I gave you my everything,why did you make me cry
    I’ll give you back the same amount of hurt that you gave me
    Do not call me a bad woman
    I can’t forgive

    Love hurts so much

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    ETHNOGRAPHY AND ETHNOMETHODOLOGY

    Speech  is used in different ways  among different groups of people.Each group has its own norms of linguistics behavior

    We must  try to understand how different groups of people use their language  if we are to achieve a comprehensive understanding of how that language is related to  the society that uses it

    A.   Varieties of Talk
    To see some of the ways in which various people in the world use talk, or sometime the absence of talk
    Let see the differences between silent and speak for some people
    1.     SILENT
    Western Apache
    •   When meet stranger
    • New relationship
    • Shyness
    • Sympathizing after someone dies
    • Confronted with ambiguity and uncertainty in their social relationship
    Indonesian
    •  Shyness
    • Confusion
    • Agreement
    • Doubt
    • Understanding
    2.     SPEAK
    Kung 
    •    Keep communication open among them 
    • To avoid conflict
    •  To prevent uncertainty in human relationship
    • Easter Indonesia
    •   Great pleasure of life

    B.   The Ethnography of Communication

    An ethnograpy of a communicative  even is a description of all the factors that are  relevant in understanding  how the particular communicative event achieves its  objectives.

    Some factors that we have to consider base on Hymes are:
    a.     Setting and Scane
    Setting refers to the time and place
    b.    The participant
    It include various combinations of speaker-listener,addressor –addresse,or sender-receiver
    c.     End
    It refers to the conventionallt recognized and expected outcomes of an exchange as well as to the personal goals that participants seek to accomplish
    d.    Act sequence
    It refers to the actual form and content of what is said: the precise words used, how they are used, and the relationship of what is said to the actual topic at hand
    e.     Key
    It refers to the tone, manner, or spirit in which a particular message is coveyed : light-hearted, serious, precise, pedantic, mocking,sarcastic, pompous, and so on

    f.       Instrumentalities
    It refers to choice of channel
    g.     Norm of interaction and interpretation
    It refers to the specific behaviours and properties that attach to speaking and also to how these may be viewed by someone who does not share them
    h.    Genre     
    It refers to clearly demarcated types of utterances;such things as poems, proverbs, riddles,sermons, prayers, lectures, and editorials

    Example 1:
         A : Kiri .......!!!
         B  : OK
    These factors will have us to understanding of the conversation above
      Setting and Scane : in public transportation (bus and oplet)
      The participant: Passanger and driver
      End : giving instruction/expressing request
      Act sequence :casual conversation
      Key : high tone intonation
      Instrumentalities :oral language betwen passenger and driver
      Norm of interaction and interpretation : polite and loundness
      Genre : daily  word that commonly use in public transportation

    Example 2:
        A: Mau pesan apa buk?
        B: saya ayam goreng
    These factors will have us to understanding of the conversation above
      Setting and Scane : at restaurant
      The participant: waiter and customer
      End : giving instruction/expressing request
      Act sequence :casual conversation
      Key : flat tone intonation
      Instrumentalities :oral language between waiter and customer
      Norm of interaction and interpretation : polite
      Genre : daily  sentence  that is use in restaurant

    C.    Ethnomethodology

    Ethnomethodology is that branch of sociology which is concerned,among other things,with talk viewed in this way
    Ethnomethodology are interested in the processes and techniques that people use to interpret the world around them and to interact with what world

    Example 1:
         A : Kiri ........!!!
         B  : OK

        after we analyze this sentences then we can interpret the conversation above. the conversation happens in public transportation between passenger and driver,when the passager said the instruction  words,it  means that she/he want to stop and because both of them have same backround knowledge at this case so both of them can understand each other

    Example 2 :
    A: Mau pesan apa buk?
    B: saya ayam goreng
     
        after we analyze this sentences then we can interpret the conversation above. the conversation happens at restaurant between waiter and customer,when the customer said the sentence,it means that she/he want to have friend chicken for eating not tell herself is a fried chicken and because both of them have same backround knowledge at this case so both of them can understand each other

    CONCLUSION

    After we have disccused about ethnography and ethnomethodology, We can conclude that communication is directed toward keeping an individual society going. in communication people use various ways to communicate with each other. therefore we have to understand how different groups of people use their language If we want to comprehend their language as one of the means to do so

    REFERENCE 
    Wardhaugh, Ronald .1998.An Introduction to Sociolinguistics. Ethnography and Ethnomethodology ,237-254. Blackwell Publisher Ltd.


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